Justin & Nicky

We're getting married!

Saturday 25th June 2022

Married for

years

months

days

Welcome to our wedding website!

This is the place to find out everything you need to know about our wedding celebration.

Our wedding will be taking place at the stunning Barn at Botley Hill on Saturday 25th June 2022. We fell in love with the place as soon as we viewed it and can't wait to share it with you all. So add the date to your diaries because we would love for you to come and celebrate with us!

How we met...

24th August 2015
We both swiped right, his opening line 'Hello Match, how are you? You could say he had me at hello!

Two dates later, Tinder became an app of the past as we knew our future was together, and so it began, our love story...

The proposal

18th June 2021
A trip to Devon was in the diary - not unusual as it's been an annual trip since we met. But staying in the poshest hotel Porlock has to offer with a harbour view was very swish compared to our usual B&B. Fish & chips on the beach with a bottle of fizz on the Friday night had become a tradition so when Justin asked 'Do you mind if we change the location for dinner tonight?' 'Of course not' was the response with a quizzical look but no questions asked.

Members of Justin's family just so happened to be in Porlock at the same time as us, so we headed there for drinks prior to dinner. Justin was clock watching and super eager to leave, little did I know he had a plan up his sleeve.

We set up camp at a place special to his family, Webbers Post in Exmoor National Park. Fish & chips devoured, Justin goes to the car to get a blanket as it was getting chilly, at least that's what I thought he went back to the car for. It wasn't a special occasion, but he came back without a blanket but instead handing me a wrapped gift. Earlier on in the day I'd received a lovely bouquet of flowers to our hotel room but still didn't think anything of it and proceeded to open the gift. It was a large photo frame with a lyric from a Bowie song and a ring. Justin's both creative and artistic so initially I thought this was a piece for our recently renovated home. Even though the lyric was “Be My Wife” it didn't quite sink in what those words were until I noticed he had a tear in his eye, was on one knee and spoke those magical words 'Will you marry me?"

Screams, tears, excitement and laughter is where this all started...the rest as they say is...

We're so excited to celebrate this next chapter in our love story with you.

See you at Botley!

Our wedding day isn't one day only ...

Seeing our nearest, dearest and coolest for a precious few hours on our special day didn't seem anywhere near enough time. We've therefore hatched a plan to host a bash the night before for friends and family to mix and mingle ...

... read on to see what it's in store.

The Night Before!

When

24th June 2022, 19:30 - 22:00

Where

The Wiremill Lakeside Pub & Inn, Wire Mill Lane, Felbridge, RH7 6HJ, United Kingdom

Come join us before we say 'I Do'!

We have reserved an area on the lakeside terrace for light bites, beer, wine and soft drinks from 7.30pm to 10.00pm to kick off the festivities in advance of our Big Day. We would love to see you if you want to stop by, it's just a five minute drive or cab ride from the hotels.

Just promise us you won't go crazy, that's what Saturday's for...

The Big Day

When

25th June 2022, 14:00 - 00:00

Where

The Barn at Botley Hill, Limpsfield Road, Warlingham, CR6 9QH, United Kingdom

The ceremony and reception are both taking place at The Barn at Botley Hill.

No black tie, in fact no ties are required or even tiaras or ballgowns.

What's the plan?
1.30pm - Coach transfer leaves Crowne Plaza hotel
2.00pm - Pre ceremony drinks at the venue
3.00pm - We say I Do!
3.30pm - We all drink, eat and mingle
5.00pm - We all feast
8.00pm - We all Dance!
11.45pm - We call time at the bar
Midnight - We all depart

For those travelling direct to the venue please arrive no later than 2.00pm for pre-ceremony drinks... kick off is at 3.00pm!

Travel & Accomodation

Car Train Taxi Coach Plane Hotels

Can I park at Botley Hill Barn?
There is ample parking available at the venue. If you do not wish to drive at the end of the evening, cars can be left overnight and collected by 10am the following morning.

Is there a petrol station near the hotels?
Yes, just 1 minute from the hotels.
BP, London Rd, East Grinstead RH19 1QL

The nearest National Rail station to The Barn at Botley Hill is Oxted. From there you can get a taxi for the short ride up Titsey Hill. 3 miles (8 mins).

From Oxted station trains run to London Bridge and Victoria regularly.

Please check National Rail prior to the big day to ensure there are no engineering works.

Below is a list of local taxi companies. We recommend booking taxis in advance for the end of the evening (if you're not taking the coach transfer).

Station Cars: 0208 660 6000
Station Cars Oxted: 01883 776000
Oxted Taxis: 01883 338027

Please note UBER is not reliable in the area.

Our advice, party til the end and get the funshine bus back to the hotel with Mr & Mrs Burke :-)

So you don't need to worry about driving and booking taxi's, we've organised coach transfers.

The coach transfer is for all guests whether staying one or two nights at either hotel. Please ensure you park in your respective hotel car park and then join other guests on the coach.

Please indicate on the RSVP page within the comments box if you require the coach transfer, or message one of us direct.

FROM: The Crowne Plaza Hotel TO: The Barn at Botley Hill
Boarding for the coach transfer, at the Crowne Plaza hotel, will start at 1.15pm and depart at 1.30pm on the dot.

FROM: The Barn at Botley Hill TO: The Crowne Plaza Hotel
For those who find their dancing shoes and don't want the party to end, board the funshine bus with the newlyweds and kick-on back at the Crowne Plaza hotel...

When the clock strikes 12, make sure you're headed for the coach or you may turn into a pumpkin!!!

LGW This is the closest airport to the Crowne Plaza Hotel 7.7 miles (13 mins)

LHR For our transatlantic friends, LHR to the Crowne Plaza hotel is 41 miles (45 mins)

We're over the moon that you're celebrating with us, if you don't want to travel straight to the venue on the big day in your glad rags or don't relish the thought of changing in Clacket Lane service station, then join us for drinks on Friday 24th and wake up with ample time to get ready in the comfort of your hotel room on the Big Day.

The Crowne Plaza, London Road, Felbridge RH19 2BH
This is where we are staying.

We have secured a number of guest rooms for Friday and Saturday night including breakfast and use of the spa, pool and gym. The rate for two nights is £269, or one night £159. If you would like to stay here, please send us a message and we can manage your booking for you if you wish. Payment can be made upon departure.

Premier Inn, London Road, Felbridge RH19 2QR
Please book with the hotel direct or via travel websites.

What time is check-in / check-out?
Crowne Plaza: 3.00pm / 11.00am
Premier Inn: 3.00pm / 12.00pm

Can I stay at the Premier Inn but still come to the Crowne Plaza to meet other guests?
Absolutely! The bar and lounge is open to non-residents.

Is breakfast included in the room rate?
Crowne Plaza: Yes
Premier Inn: No

If you're staying at the Premier Inn, you can have breakfast at The Star Inn attached to the hotel for £10.50pp or the Crowne Plaza for £16.95pp.

For guests staying at the Crowne Plaza hotel, an extensive buffet breakfast is served in the Bay Tree Restaurant between 7.00-10.30am (Saturdays & Sundays).

What amenities does the Crowne Plaza have?
Free parking / Bar & Lounge / Spa / Hot tub / Swimming Pool / Gym

The Spa & Leisure Centre are currently open between 09.00 hours and 18.00 hours daily. The capacity of the poolside area is limited to 30 persons with a maximum of 21 persons in the pool at any one time. Pool use is exclusively for adults, with the exception of Family Swim Time between 9-10 am daily. If you would like to use these facilities during your stay please contact the hotel to pre-book: spa@cpfelbridge.com or 01342 337755.

Whilst car parking is complimentary, all vehicles must be registered at reception on the day of arrival. Any unregistered vehicles will incur a fine.

Please note - there is a race meeting at nearby Lingfield Park racecourse on Saturday. We advise booking your accommodation as soon as possible to avoid disappointment.

FAQ's

The Night Before!

How far is The Wiremill from the hotels?
Two miles - five minutes by car, and plenty of parking.

If you would like to travel by taxi, please see the local taxi company numbers on the Travel & Accommodation page.

Will food and beverages be available?
Beer, wine and soft drinks will be available from 7.30pm to 10.00pm. If you would like anything else, the bar will be open for you to purchase direct.

A buffet will be available but if you're looking for a full meal, please eat beforehand, at The Wiremill or pick up a kebab on the way back to your hotel!!

Is there a dress code?
Casual Attire: Anything goes, from sundresses and sandals to jeans and tees.

We have an area reserved on the terrace which overlooks the lake. It's under cover and has heaters so no need for umbrellas and cardigans, although you can never trust the weather in the UK!

The Big Day

Can I take and post photos of the day on social media?
Yes absolutely! We'd love to see all your pics.
Add #mrandmrsburke2022 in your posts
Instagram: Tag @NEVS33
Facebook: If you're not already friends with Nichola, please send a friend request before posting.

Do I need to come prepared for the outdoors?
As The Barn at Botley Hill is set in beautiful countryside, elements of the day will be outdoors, weather permitting.

Where can I get my hair blow dried?
Local hairdressers:
Toni & Guy - 16 London Rd, East Grinstead
RH19 1AG - 01342 317748 (4 mins by car from hotels)

Michael Todd - 29 High St, East Grinstead
RH19 3AF - 01342 305201 (5 mins)

I've forgotten something, where can I find...
Waitrose: West St, East Grinstead
RH19 4YZ (6 mins by car from hotels)

Sansbury's: Brooklands Way, East Grinstead
RH19 1DD (5 mins)

Chemist: 7 London Rd, East Grinstead
RH19 1QL (1 min)

Shoe Repair: Timpson, 5 Whitehall Parade
London Road East Grinstead RH19 1AP (4 mins)

I'm in need of...
McDonald's: 165 London Rd, East Grinstead
RH19 1ET (3 mins by car from hotel) 7am - 11pm

Starbucks: c/o Sainsbury's, Brooklands Way, East Grinstead
RH19 1DD (5 mins)

Cafe Nero: 25-27 High Street, East Grinstead
RH19 3AF (5 mins)

Domino's Pizza: 10 The Atrium, King Street, East Grinstead
RH19 3DJ (4 mins)

Will the bar at the Crowne Plaza be open past midnight?
If there are residents in the bar, then the bar will remain open for those who want to continue the party!

Things to do near by

Hair of the dog!

Westerham Brewery
Beggars Lane TN16 1QP
Stop by for some local Kentish ale

Silent Pool Gin Distillery
Shere Road GU5 9BW
Local gin distillery worth a visit

Denbies Wine Estate
London Road RH5 6AA
Award wining local wine estate with shop and café

Squerryes Winery
Beggars Lane TN16 1QP
Sold in Waitrose, it must be good!

Towns and Villages

Box Hill
Highpoint of Olympic cycle racing and great views too!

Westerham
Local town with shops, cafes and restaurants

Dorking
Charming market town with antique shops, restaurants and cafes set in the Surrey Hills

Reigate
High street full of shops, bars, cafes and restaurants set at the foot of the North Downs

Other

Hever Castle and Gardens
Hever Road GU5 9BW
Ancestral home of Anne Boleyn, wife of Henry VIII

National Trust - Chartwell
Mapleton Road TN16 1PS
Visit the home of Sir Winston Churchill

Brighton Palace Pier
BN2 1TQ
Take a trip to the seaside and visit The Palace of Fun arcade. Spend some pennies on the classic 2p pushers or try your luck at everything from a Sega Rally to Down the Clown!

RHS Wisley Garden Centre
Wisley Lane GU23 6QB
One of the great gardens of the world packed with horticultural inspiration

Pooh Corner
Hartfield TN7 4AE
The home of the most famous bear in the world - Winnie the Pooh

Ikea
Purley Way CR0 4UZ
Just in case you need some pots and pans...and there's always meatballs!

Contact Us

If you have any questions about the arrangements for our wedding or want to let us know something specific, i.e to confirm a seat on the coach or to book The Crowne Plaza hotel, please contact us using the form below or either one of us on our mobile.
Justin
M: +44 (0)7802 706713

Nicky
M: +44 (0) 7801 638570

Our gift list

We've been together for a year or two, we don't really need anything new.
If you were thinking of giving something to help us on our way,
a gift towards our dream honeymoon, would really make our day!

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RSVP

When do I need to RSVP by?
11th March 2022

Recommended hotel
When you complete the RSVP section, you will be directed back to the guest dashboard to view the recommended hotels. If you would like to stay at the Crowne Plaza hotel, please let us know by sending us a message and we can make the booking for you as we have a number of rooms secured over both nights. You will be able to pay on departure. If your preference is the Premier Inn please book direct.

Dietary requirements
Please ignore the menu choices wording - at the time of sending the invite the menu hasn't been chosen but rest assured it will be delicious!

If you have any dietary requirements or allergies, please add them or state 'none' in the comments box.

Coach transfer
Please see the Travel & Accomodation page for details of the coach transfer timings and pick-up/drop off points.

Please indicate on the RSVP page within the comments box if you require the coach transfer, or message one of us direct.

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